Category Archives: SEX

Communicating about Sex: Starting the Conversation

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<the following has been prepared for icanrelate by one of the project’s fabulous youth advisors> Communicating about sex is hard! If there’s something you want in bed, but aren’t sure how your partner will respond, talking about it can be scary.  Here are 3 ways to start that conversation that I have found helpful. 1. Positive […]

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Challenging Three Things about Monogamy and Sex

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Here are a few widely held beliefs about sex and monogamy I’d like to challenge: Monogamous sex is more meaningful and pleasurable than casual sex and one night stands. Monogamous relationships are highly valued and casual sexual encounters are often devalued. Some people believe that one night stands are something to get out of your […]

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Porn, Porn Everywhere.

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Young people are watching porn.  Probably more now than ever before.  Is this good for youth relationships?  Guess it depends on who you ask.   The more tightly-wound are screaming about crumbling society and sexual deviants.  Others talk about sexual exploration actually enhancing relationships. A lot of people think porn leads to sex.  The fact is […]

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Am I Good At Sex?

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Because everyone is different and constantly changing, there’s not just one way to be “good” at sex. But, to start, ask yourself these questions. You might figure out where you’re a star, and where there’s room to improve. Do you know and like yourself? How do you feel about your body, your sexual desires, your desirability? […]

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