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When the Upper Hand Slaps You in the Face

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Ever try to keep the upper hand in a relationship? Making sure that the other person likes or wants or loves you more, keeping control of power one way or another, dumping them before they dump you? It’s understandable that no one wants to get hurt. No one wants to get dumped, get played, get […]

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Re-thinking perfect partners

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Many of us put a lot of emphasis on finding a “perfect” partner. This means finding someone who sweeps us off of our feet, knows what we’re thinking, feeling and is able to meet all of our needs. This “perfect” person is supposed to become our BFF and lover. That’s a tall order, right? It […]

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I’m So Lonely

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Eight arms and No one to Hug

Some things are still really hard to bring up.  Loneliness comes to mind.  For most, it’s very very hard to come out and say I “feel alone”, “unconnected”, or “left out”.  Tonnes of us are looking for friends or that special someone.  It can seem like everyone has somewhere to go on Saturday night.  Someone […]

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