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What’s up with this? 1st Edition: In it for the Chase

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In the beginning of a relationship things can seem so perfect! The person shows a lot of interest with regular calls or messages. They want to spend a lot of time with you; they ask really thoughtful questions…. It’s really clear that they’re into you! Knowing that, you let your guard down and share yourself […]

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The Ex-Factor!!!

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Oh the dreaded Ex! Not your ex… your partner’s ex! …. YUP! That one! Just when you think you’re in the clear. You’re one step away from hitting cloud 9.5 and the EX pops up out of the blue. There’s the happy birthday  text,  the “I want you back” call, and the  long-time no-see greeting […]

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Funny Meme or Gender Stereotyping?

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Are girls more invested in relationships?  This meme as well as countless videos and songs say just that.  We’re also told girlfriends are more desirable when quiet and compliant and boyfriends desire to roam free. Is anyone sick and tired of this?  This is Toronto in 2013 not 1913. Can you be feminine and loud?  […]

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Porn, Porn Everywhere.

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Young people are watching porn.  Probably more now than ever before.  Is this good for youth relationships?  Guess it depends on who you ask.   The more tightly-wound are screaming about crumbling society and sexual deviants.  Others talk about sexual exploration actually enhancing relationships. A lot of people think porn leads to sex.  The fact is […]

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WTF is an Open Relationship?

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You might have heard about it – open relationships, polyamoury, non-monogamy. It’s all over the place. But WTF are they, really? Well, basically, it’s a consensual way of having non-exclusive relationships. In other words, people who are involved agree to specific arrangements. It’s not a free licence to “cheat”, and it’s not a lack of […]

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Am I Good At Sex?

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Because everyone is different and constantly changing, there’s not just one way to be “good” at sex. But, to start, ask yourself these questions. You might figure out where you’re a star, and where there’s room to improve. Do you know and like yourself? How do you feel about your body, your sexual desires, your desirability? […]

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